need to get the rambling out
I don't know *WHY* I'm feeling this way... I swear it's not on purpose. I feel pretty out of control with my thoughts/feelings at times and after thinking and (trying to) rationalize I can see from the 'other' side -but it's SO FRUSTRATING!
what on earth am I rambling about now?
Well. I feel like I've been over exherting to try and get caught up on stuff around here... I want to come up with a simple routine that say on Monday - do 'x' loads of laundry, Tuesday -bake something, Wednesday -another x loads of laundry, Thursday -vacuum/dust, Friday -whatever is left! hopefully nothing. It just seems that I am swimming up niagara falls, and the part that is SO frustrating is that it really seems like my dh doesn't even care. BUT! here's the quirky part -he does probably care. I just don't think that we are on the same boat tho.. UGH!!!!!!!!
I've talked to him until I verbally can say NO MORE! He just doesn't get it. I have actually let the laundry run out! -LITERALLY! I have made darn sure he has ZERO socks and underwear.... and have NOT picked up his laundry that is all over the floor. STill... nothing. Just comments "hmm, wonder where all my socks are?" {insert look} is this guy for REAL? I mean he KNOWS how to do everything -and if he doesn't only know how to run everything he can probably fix it too. He has told me that *my* number 1 priority is to raise our children. I'm just stumped. I just don't know what to do next... I haven't even dibbled on the fact that I haven't been feeling great. :sigh:
Told ya I was rambly.
what on earth am I rambling about now?
Well. I feel like I've been over exherting to try and get caught up on stuff around here... I want to come up with a simple routine that say on Monday - do 'x' loads of laundry, Tuesday -bake something, Wednesday -another x loads of laundry, Thursday -vacuum/dust, Friday -whatever is left! hopefully nothing. It just seems that I am swimming up niagara falls, and the part that is SO frustrating is that it really seems like my dh doesn't even care. BUT! here's the quirky part -he does probably care. I just don't think that we are on the same boat tho.. UGH!!!!!!!!
I've talked to him until I verbally can say NO MORE! He just doesn't get it. I have actually let the laundry run out! -LITERALLY! I have made darn sure he has ZERO socks and underwear.... and have NOT picked up his laundry that is all over the floor. STill... nothing. Just comments "hmm, wonder where all my socks are?" {insert look} is this guy for REAL? I mean he KNOWS how to do everything -and if he doesn't only know how to run everything he can probably fix it too. He has told me that *my* number 1 priority is to raise our children. I'm just stumped. I just don't know what to do next... I haven't even dibbled on the fact that I haven't been feeling great. :sigh:
Told ya I was rambly.
posted by Jen Hoover | 9:16 a.m.
3 Comments:
((hugs)) sometimes they just don't get it, or they don't want to get it. If you're trying to get a good schedule for you have you tried flylady.net? It can seem overwhelming at first but if you stick to it, you'll see results. If you're wanting to get dh to help more around the house, I wish I had some magic potion or words to help. ((hugs)) I'm here to help ya if you need it.
you're preaching to the choir honey! I try to make the 'daily schedule' but something always come up to throw it out of whack. It is an uphill struggle while they're young but don't fret, soon the kids will be doing their own laundry.
I know! me too!! It really is an never ending battle. You just have to figure out what works and let the rest go. That's what i did. :~)
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